Real Skills. Real Support. Real Non-monogamy.
You want to open up.
And you want to get it right.
Opening a relationship is one of the most intense things a couple can do.
LAKETI gives you the skills, support, and knowledge that actually determine whether it goes well.
Whether you're ‘just curious’ or are already in a polycule, LAKETI meets you where you are.
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“During onboarding I realized I've been on this journey longer than I thought. It was an aha moment.”Beta user — began non-monogamy 1.5 years ago
You're figuring out non-monogamy while also trying to strengthen the relationship you already have.
Most couples new to ENM lack the structural and communication skills to form agreements aligned with what they can actually tolerate. Triggering situations pile up. Strain pushes couples back toward monogamy, or worse, a painful break up.
A platform that grows with you, guided by someone who gets it.
Backed by research-based somatic sexology, LAKETI maps your skills, provides sex & relationship education, and connects you with a community on the same journey. It's the only relationship wellness platform that gives you and your partner a shared language, not just reddit advice.
The framework behind every relationship we support.
The LAKETI framework is built on 12 trainable, observable skills organized across three domains. Through guided practice, these skills build a foundation for higher-order relational capacities to emerge such as presence, resilience, and meaning-making. When foundational skills are strong and integrative skills begin to emerge, you get the desired relational outcomes.
This is what getting it right looks like. →
Somatic sexologist and ENM relationship coach with years of experience navigating alternative relationships. Check out @TheSexTechnologist